While sometimes it is good to be criticized, by other people or by yourself, too much criticism can kill your self esteem, your confidence and motivation.
I don't mind being judged by anyone. When I think that their remarks are making sense, I simply implement the changes in order to improve myself. Sometimes it takes a while for me to understand and accept some comment, but even if the reality hurts, I try to stay honest with myself.
We have one life, and it's fair to say that everyone can live it as it pleases.
But, why live in a lie? The reality can be hard at the moment, and that moment may take years to pass, but eventually it will, and if we surround our world with lies, then, at the end of the road, when the night comes and we can't ignore our consciousness anymore what lie are we going to tell next? That we did our best? That may be we didn't have the possibilities?
The honesty is the key to happy life. If something isn't working out the way you've planned, then you can try harder either give up, but don't cheat to yourself thinking that everything will be okay, although you do nothing to influence the slightest change.
By staying sincere, a person should know where to stop with the self criticism. A pill can save a life, but it cake take it easily away if overdosed.
Don't be harsh on yourself, dear me.
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